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It’s Rue…here! So I woke up today bored! Had nothing to do and was going online reading the latest, celebrity news…I still can’t believe that Vanessa and Zac are no more…or that Ryan and Scarlett called it quits, but that’s not my point….I was thinking about relationships and why they come to an end…I mean everything at first seems cool, its all goo-goo gaga(Not Lady GaGa) and then the relationship becomes a routine, and we eventually get the couple get bored, and split!!! Looking at different relationships, such as friends, close family members and celebs I came to the conclusion that what people need to do is keep the flame going. For example leave a simple text or tweet to your loved one everyday. Best choice do it by phone or in person but don’t say the same thing so this doesn’t become a routine. Have different topics of conversation and leave the he said she said out of the relationship. Don’t be clingy…meaning that by my advice I don’t mean obsessed over that person and check on them 24/7 but just make them notice that your thinking about him/her. If this doesn’t work, and the relationship seems to be going down hill then make a list of things that you guys have in common, things that you guys are totally opposite and also try examining when things started going downhill, when your done with your list check which one is longer and you’ll be making the right choice!!!!
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| THE BREAK-UP |
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| THE TORN MARRIAGE |
It’s Rue…here! So I woke up today bored! Had nothing to do and was going online reading the latest, celebrity news…I still can’t believe that Vanessa and Zac are no more…or that Ryan and Scarlett called it quits, but that’s not my point….I was thinking about relationships and why they come to an end…I mean everything at first seems cool, its all goo-goo gaga(Not Lady GaGa) and then the relationship becomes a routine, and we eventually get the couple get bored, and split!!! Looking at different relationships, such as friends, close family members and celebs I came to the conclusion that what people need to do is keep the flame going. For example leave a simple text or tweet to your loved one everyday. Best choice do it by phone or in person but don’t say the same thing so this doesn’t become a routine. Have different topics of conversation and leave the he said she said out of the relationship. Don’t be clingy…meaning that by my advice I don’t mean obsessed over that person and check on them 24/7 but just make them notice that your thinking about him/her. If this doesn’t work, and the relationship seems to be going down hill then make a list of things that you guys have in common, things that you guys are totally opposite and also try examining when things started going downhill, when your done with your list check which one is longer and you’ll be making the right choice!!!!
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